Friday, September 3, 2021

Choices Matter

Choices Matter

 

Last Sunday I watched an interview with Carmen Rasmussen Herbert, a former finalist on the second season of American Idol. When she talked about the decisions she eventually made that took her from the “top of the charts” kind of fame she thought she wanted, it reminded me of some of the choices I made when my own “two roads diverged.” I wasn’t on the road to fame and fortune, but, like everyone, I had to make a choice that determined a set path for the rest of my life. 

 

I was eighteen and ready to graduate at the top of my class from Idaho Falls High School. Some of my teachers and counselors were pushing me to go East. They wanted me to apply at the big Ivy-League schools or fancy women’s colleges. My decision was to go instead to Ricks College, 30 miles from home. I had a very prestigious scholarship that I could use anywhere I chose to go. It seemed like everyone but my family was horrified that I did not want to “go big.” 

 

So, I went off to Ricks College (now BYU-Idaho), “and that has made all the difference.” My mother died that next year, succumbing to heart disease complicated by the Hong-Kong flu. I was so thankful for the weekends spent at home over that first year of college. Who knows what the other road might have been like? Wherever that road would have taken me, I am happy in the life journey taken. 

  

Tuesday, August 10, 2021

Matters of Gathering

 Matters of Gathering Blog 8.10.21

 

Sunday I taught the Young-Women’s lesson for our ward combined with the Pheasant Brook Ward. The lesson was on the gathering of Israel, and we talked a lot about President and Sister Nelson’s message to the youth in April, 2018, “Hope of Israel.” I LOVE that talk. I think it is exciting! I encourage everyone to read or re-read it (or watch the video version). It was fabulous to meet with the girls and discuss the gathering of Israel, which President Nelson calls “the most important thing taking place on earth today. Nothing else compares in magnitude, nothing else compares in importance, nothing else compares in majesty.” I noticed that the young women needed more instruction than the time allowed on “Israel,” the covenant path, and the gathering of the ten tribes, but they are spectacular and will rise to the challenge.

 

This morning our family study was in Jacob 5, again focusing on the gathering of Israel. We watched the old seminary video on YouTube, “The Allegory of the Olive Tree.” I almost wanted to sign up for another mission!

I don’t know how many times I have read, studied, and taught Jacob 5, but this morning it took on new understanding, purpose, and motivation after Sunday’s lesson and study of D&C 86. I absolutely love studying and teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ!

 

And speaking of gathering the world into covenant Israel, Sean was made the new branch president in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.  He will serve until they move in May, and his calling will be to prepare the branch to become a ward, part of a new stake. In this Muslim country. Zion, expanding. Nothing can stop the work from progressing. We live in scary, but exciting times. We are the gatherers for the final time In the Lord’s vineyard.

 





Saturday, June 5, 2021

Matters of Grandmothering






 Three of my grandchildren are graduating from high school—and two of them are the babies of their families! Congratulations Julia, Carson, and Haylee! It seems impossible that you are so grown-up.

Kara, Alisha, Colton, Kelsey, and Victoria are my married grandchildren. Autumn is getting married in September. Victoria got married on December 5 in the Raleigh, NC, Temple. Getting married in a pandemic is a challenging proposition, but Vika’s had the added roadblock of her family’s being stuck in Malaysia and not able to attend—wait! Like so many meetings and celebrations during COVID, the only way the family could gather was by Zoom. Though they could not attend the sealing, they tuned in for the hand-fasting ceremony and ring exchange. Thanks to the Anderson grandparents, the ring ceremony and drive-by reception was a splendid success. Beautifully decorated in true Norwegian tradition with beautiful flowers and ribbons, an event tent welcomed in-person and zooming-in family and friends from all over the world! A food truck served beignets and hot chocolate. Jim officiated in the hand-fasting/ring ceremony. It was so amazing—I am grateful that we got to be part of it all. In the endowment session at the temple family gathered the night before the sealing and shared a unique and spiritual experience. 

Zoom! A headache and a blessing. During this last year we were able to zoom into church meetings where our Colorado grandchildren sang at Christmas time (Kara, Alisha, Julia, Savanna). We zoomed in to hear Julia speak. We zoomed in to listen to Savanna talk. We zoomed in to Julia’s seminary graduation and “be there” for her talk. It was not ideal to have Sean and Shawna be a half-world away for their daughter’s wedding, but it WAS a blessing that they could gather their family in Malaysia and zoom in.

The pandemic was a challenge for missionaries, too. Our grandson Bryce, called to serve in Rancagua, Chile, held his MTC experience online and with zoom from the office in our house. He spent several months in Louisiana  waiting for Chile to open up. During that time he and his companions contracted COVID and were in deep quarantine. Once he finally got to Chile, he spent several more weeks in lockdown, doing his missionary work through social media and zoom.

We are grateful for vaccinations, which now give us confidence to hug and kiss all our grandkids, 26 counting our precious great-grandsons. 


Saturday, January 23, 2021

Pandemic Routine Matters

 It is true that my routine is pretty boring these days. To rev up my interest and put a spark in my week, I try to find an adventure walk or a project that is different. I journal every day in the scriptures or in conference talks. I love this task more every day, and it gets the creative juices flowing. I play the piano and the ukulele or guitar—mostly because if it’s not on my daily checklist, it won’t get done! I study Spanish for an hour or two every day. Checklist. There is something therapeutic about checking off what I have accomplished. I walk. I read. (Right now I’ve tackled THE WAY OF KINGS and ANXIOUS PEOPLE.) I try to lift or minister. I always have a sewing project going. As a family we read and study the scriptures along with family prayer twice a day. And then there is my blog!

 

It has been a weird ten months since we returned from our mission at the beginning of the COVID19 pandemic, but it has also presented opportunities for learning and growth. I count my blessings. 


Pictures:


1. One of our study projects is with DON”T MISS THIS.

         

2. Another great study is with Tyler & Taylor at Book of Mormon Central—Come, Follow Me Insights.

 
3. Calendaring




4.

Wednesday, December 16, 2020

Cameron’ Christmas Miracle Matters

 Matters of Light This Christmas, A Cameron Story

I was feeling very Christmasy. I was completely immersed in “Christmas with the Chosen” and had just watched an episode of Studio 5 called “End 2020 on a Positive Note” with Dr. Liz Patel and Brooke Walker when Jim called with this Christmas-miracle story: He had taken Cameron to buy a suit for Christmas. This is because Cam has lost about 90 pounds, and his suit from many years ago literally hangs on him. They went shopping at Mr. Mac. Cameron was bubbling over with excitement and thrilled to find out that he could get a $300 suit AND a second one for $1 more. Cam loves to shop! As Jim went to the counter to pay for TWO suits, the miracles began. Two free ties! Then, the unexpected. Another customer in the store, a kind and generous soul, had already paid $200 on our bill! The tears began to flow—from both of my guys. A Christmas pay-it-forward. Cameron had been shopping for a week for co-workers and family, but this. . .! What a little miracle! It changed Christmas for us forever.

 

So, Dr. Liz’s list of ways to end 2020 on a positive note should include just one more thing:

#1. Look for the cosmic Christmas miracle in the SW sky, beginning Dec. 21 just after sundown when Jupiter and Saturn align!

#2. Look for the joy that doesn’t meet the circumstance!

#3. Look for the needs and causes close to you!

#4. Look at Christmas through the eyes of a child!

#5. Look for ways to spread warm “hugs” of emotion!

AND bonus #6. Look around for good, generous people sharing what they have with someone who needs to know that they matter.

 

Watch the segment on Studio 5, and then add your mental image of a kind person at Mr. Mac’s, who made a young man with Down Syndrome feel like the most important and loved person today!




Friday, December 11, 2020

 We have two Christmas trees this year. It’s a long story, and it happened through a series of unfortunate events, but it’s the end of the story that I love. 



 

It is not easy at our age to set up and decorate a nine-foot tree and a seven-foot tree. A visit from my brother and his wife prompted us to push ourselves through the mess and the stress to finish it all. The old tree is one we call  our Santa-travel-family tree. We collect ornaments as we travel the world, and they are beautiful remembrances of people and places we love. This is also where we put our ornament gifts, received from students and families through the years. We have collected beautiful, whimsical, and homemade Santas, too. A few years ago we found little frame ornaments and added family pictures. We love this tree—even though we had to string lights this year.

 

The living-room tree is completely covered with all references to the Savior and the humble Nativity. I think that all the disasters that led us to the purchase and work of this tree were all worth it. It sits next to the piano where I play the old carols of the season. The lights and décor inspire me to play. It is another way for us to be reminded every day that our Jesus is the Reason for the Season!

 

My cousin Susan sent this message from Elder Christofferson (“Why We Need Jesus Christ”) in her Christmas card this year: “As Christmas approaches…dial down the ‘noise’, and take some time this Christmas season to reflect on the wonder and the majesty of the Son of God. . . to relax, be at peace, and see this little child in your mind. Do not be concerned. . .with what [may be] coming up in His life or in yours. Instead, take a peaceful moment to contemplate perhaps the most serene moment in the history of the world—when all of heaven rejoiced with the message ‘Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward men’ (Luke 2:14).” 

 

Amen!


Monday, November 30, 2020

Coming to Christ Talk 11/22/20 Hunter 2nd Ward

 

Have you ever been to a salt mine? Sounds interesting, right? A few years ago while my son’s family was living in Austria, we took a trip to Salzburg (which means salt city). As we traveled along, we got a text from our daughter-in-law in the car ahead of us with a link to buy tickets for the salt-mine tour in Halstadt. That sounded interesting, so we bought our tickets online, sight unseen. (Sort of like going on a mission—sounds interesting, ya?) We arrived in Halstadt, a breathtakingly beautiful village in the Alps. Then, reality hit. Straight up the mountain to the mine ran  a half-mile funicular tram. My heart stopped beating in my acrophobic mind. I tried to back out, but there was a lot of social pressure from my family. Up the mountain we went. My grandchildren exclaimed at the top, “Grandma, you did great!” I had not screamed at all. Paralyzed in fear, I prayed my way to the top. In fact I prayed my way across bridges, streams, and forest paths for another half mile to the mine. We all dressed in safety clothing and received instruction about salt slides within the mine (more praying), moving through the darkness (more prayers), and the trip out on a human bench train. Then, back down the mountain, across a clear bridge high above the village at the bottom of the Alps. My inclination was to scream and cry the whole way! But instead, I prayed.

 

That is very similar to 2020. It sounded like a good idea in January, but my inclination has been to cry and scream all the way. Instead, I have prayed. For three months we continued our missionary work in Laredo. We taught early-morning seminary every day, prepared 6-10 hours for the next day, prepared and taught two institute lessons a week, year-round, helped the young missionaries with transportation, teaching, baptisms, and music. Every week there were multiple baptisms; most were young adults and teens—so we were often working with new converts and those being taught in our classes. 

 

How did our mission help us come to Christ? Every day in every way we were immersed in scripture study, words of the prophets and apostles, teaching, praying, feeling the peace of the Spirit, and watching the Church grow in Laredo and in the Texas-McAllen Mission. Our first December in Laredo, the first stake was formed with two English-speaking wards, two Spanish-speaking wards, and a Spanish-speaking branch—which became a ward just recently. The TMM is the only mission in the United States where all the young missionaries are called to Spanish-speaking. We taught in English—in fact, we have learned much more Spanish in the months we have been home. We attended two or three sacrament meetings every week. The Spanish meeting took intense concentration! Testimony meetings were filled with lines of people waiting anxiously to share how the hand of God was working in their lives. It was always a spiritual feast.  Last October prayers were answered when the prophet announced a temple for McAllen, TX. It would take too long to explain all that that means to south Texas saints. The short story is that it opens up temple blessings for undocumented members who couldn’t pass the checkpoints going north to the San Antonio Temple.

 

We literally watched lives change as good people were taught and accepted the miracle of the Atonement of Christ. There were some sad cases, too. Victor wanted to be baptized, and the Sisters worked with him for months as he tried to conquer addictions. He attended church and institute though he spoke little English. In the end, he disappeared because the cartel would not let him out of their grip and threatened death to Victor and his family if he tried to end his drug running. 

 

One sweet little family was baptized a few minutes following the parents’ wedding in front of the font. Their extreme commitment to the Gospel changed everything about their lives. They never missed church; they spoke at baptisms; they served.  They had seen the example of Brother Vaca at work and wanted that life for themselves and their children. The Vacas threw the wedding-baptism dinner to celebrate, They had never thought that this family might be interested in hearing the gospel—they didn’t know the influence they were having by just living the gospel at work, at home, and at church.

 

I could tell you a hundred stories that we got to be part of. One young woman who came to Christ and had an immeasurable influence for good was Ingrid. When we met Ingrid, she had been a member of the Church for about 1 ½ years. She had always avoided the missionaries when they were knocking doors in her neighborhood, but one night in her dorm room on the top floor, the missionaries knocked on their final door of the night. Ingrid opened it and accepted their message. She never looked back. While we were there, Ingrid taught with the missionaries, bore testimony, received her endowments in the temple, served as Institute president, encouraged and supported YSA. She also graduated from TA&M at College Station. While no one else in her family has joined the Church so far, Ingrid has been a force of nature in bringing others to Christ.

 

One night Ingrid came a bit late to institute class after working with the Elders who were teaching Mayra. Ingrid reported that Mayra had cried, telling the missionaries, “Oh, why didn’t you find me sooner!” Mayra was soon baptized. Mayra and her children have changed their lives, actively bringing others to experience the joy she found when she found Christ.

 

Cindy is a dear friend who joined the church after her sister accepted the gospel. Cindy is quite a character, but she is completely devoted to sharing her new testimony. She is serving as a ward missionary, and always introducing others to the missionaries.

 

Most who were baptized, and continue to come into the Church, in Laredo come from little resources, loss, family issues, escape from difficult circumstances on the other side of the border. They come legally and otherwise to a country where their dreams can come true. The Lord blesses them with the gospel, the only source of peace. We watched how the Lord brought people to Laredo who could and would make a difference. One young bishop who is a dentist came with his family to Laredo after serving his mission there a few years ago. Another bishopric consisted of an optometrist and two federal immigration attorneys. One bishop was an FBI agent and other leaders were on border control. Leaders come from both sides of the border with talents and skills to help those who need it. The stake president grew up in the Mormon colonies where he learned both languages equally and now holds a position in a large trucking company. People are drawn to Laredo to be part of the great final gathering. As Jim says, “It is to fulfill the blessings promised to the remnant descendants of Lehi in these latter days.”

 

Often we would look at our institute class and see half returned missionaries and half investigators and new members. Our seminary classes were filled with students from faithful generations of Saints and brand-new converts. Like us, they would rise at 4:30 in the morning and travel to the church buildings for classes before school. We had some who could barely speak English, and others who were gifted students attending special high schools or early college. We watched them graduate with honors, go on missions, come to BYUI or other colleges, and enter the military. We saw institute students go on and return from missions, serve in the wards and stake, marry in the temple, and start their own faithful families. And that’s what it’s all about. Jim will tell you a few more of our favorite stories.

 

Our mission was a great blessing. We have never studied so much scripture! We taught the Doctrine & Covenants, Saints, the four gospels of the New Testament, and the Book of Mormon. We have never prayed so many times a day. Through technology we met with Cameron twice a day for scripture study in the Book of Mormon and family prayer. We love our 23 months of service that brought us nearer to Christ! It prepared us for 2020—so we would turn to prayer instead of crying or screaming! We got in the habit of studying together at home. We see the Lord’s hand in our lives in these times of crisis and chaos. We see the Lord’s hand in choosing when we would serve, where we would serve, and how we would serve. I am grateful for the Father’s divine plan for us and for sending Christ to lead us home. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.