Wednesday, December 16, 2020

Cameron’ Christmas Miracle Matters

 Matters of Light This Christmas, A Cameron Story

I was feeling very Christmasy. I was completely immersed in “Christmas with the Chosen” and had just watched an episode of Studio 5 called “End 2020 on a Positive Note” with Dr. Liz Patel and Brooke Walker when Jim called with this Christmas-miracle story: He had taken Cameron to buy a suit for Christmas. This is because Cam has lost about 90 pounds, and his suit from many years ago literally hangs on him. They went shopping at Mr. Mac. Cameron was bubbling over with excitement and thrilled to find out that he could get a $300 suit AND a second one for $1 more. Cam loves to shop! As Jim went to the counter to pay for TWO suits, the miracles began. Two free ties! Then, the unexpected. Another customer in the store, a kind and generous soul, had already paid $200 on our bill! The tears began to flow—from both of my guys. A Christmas pay-it-forward. Cameron had been shopping for a week for co-workers and family, but this. . .! What a little miracle! It changed Christmas for us forever.

 

So, Dr. Liz’s list of ways to end 2020 on a positive note should include just one more thing:

#1. Look for the cosmic Christmas miracle in the SW sky, beginning Dec. 21 just after sundown when Jupiter and Saturn align!

#2. Look for the joy that doesn’t meet the circumstance!

#3. Look for the needs and causes close to you!

#4. Look at Christmas through the eyes of a child!

#5. Look for ways to spread warm “hugs” of emotion!

AND bonus #6. Look around for good, generous people sharing what they have with someone who needs to know that they matter.

 

Watch the segment on Studio 5, and then add your mental image of a kind person at Mr. Mac’s, who made a young man with Down Syndrome feel like the most important and loved person today!




Friday, December 11, 2020

 We have two Christmas trees this year. It’s a long story, and it happened through a series of unfortunate events, but it’s the end of the story that I love. 



 

It is not easy at our age to set up and decorate a nine-foot tree and a seven-foot tree. A visit from my brother and his wife prompted us to push ourselves through the mess and the stress to finish it all. The old tree is one we call  our Santa-travel-family tree. We collect ornaments as we travel the world, and they are beautiful remembrances of people and places we love. This is also where we put our ornament gifts, received from students and families through the years. We have collected beautiful, whimsical, and homemade Santas, too. A few years ago we found little frame ornaments and added family pictures. We love this tree—even though we had to string lights this year.

 

The living-room tree is completely covered with all references to the Savior and the humble Nativity. I think that all the disasters that led us to the purchase and work of this tree were all worth it. It sits next to the piano where I play the old carols of the season. The lights and décor inspire me to play. It is another way for us to be reminded every day that our Jesus is the Reason for the Season!

 

My cousin Susan sent this message from Elder Christofferson (“Why We Need Jesus Christ”) in her Christmas card this year: “As Christmas approaches…dial down the ‘noise’, and take some time this Christmas season to reflect on the wonder and the majesty of the Son of God. . . to relax, be at peace, and see this little child in your mind. Do not be concerned. . .with what [may be] coming up in His life or in yours. Instead, take a peaceful moment to contemplate perhaps the most serene moment in the history of the world—when all of heaven rejoiced with the message ‘Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward men’ (Luke 2:14).” 

 

Amen!


Monday, November 30, 2020

Coming to Christ Talk 11/22/20 Hunter 2nd Ward

 

Have you ever been to a salt mine? Sounds interesting, right? A few years ago while my son’s family was living in Austria, we took a trip to Salzburg (which means salt city). As we traveled along, we got a text from our daughter-in-law in the car ahead of us with a link to buy tickets for the salt-mine tour in Halstadt. That sounded interesting, so we bought our tickets online, sight unseen. (Sort of like going on a mission—sounds interesting, ya?) We arrived in Halstadt, a breathtakingly beautiful village in the Alps. Then, reality hit. Straight up the mountain to the mine ran  a half-mile funicular tram. My heart stopped beating in my acrophobic mind. I tried to back out, but there was a lot of social pressure from my family. Up the mountain we went. My grandchildren exclaimed at the top, “Grandma, you did great!” I had not screamed at all. Paralyzed in fear, I prayed my way to the top. In fact I prayed my way across bridges, streams, and forest paths for another half mile to the mine. We all dressed in safety clothing and received instruction about salt slides within the mine (more praying), moving through the darkness (more prayers), and the trip out on a human bench train. Then, back down the mountain, across a clear bridge high above the village at the bottom of the Alps. My inclination was to scream and cry the whole way! But instead, I prayed.

 

That is very similar to 2020. It sounded like a good idea in January, but my inclination has been to cry and scream all the way. Instead, I have prayed. For three months we continued our missionary work in Laredo. We taught early-morning seminary every day, prepared 6-10 hours for the next day, prepared and taught two institute lessons a week, year-round, helped the young missionaries with transportation, teaching, baptisms, and music. Every week there were multiple baptisms; most were young adults and teens—so we were often working with new converts and those being taught in our classes. 

 

How did our mission help us come to Christ? Every day in every way we were immersed in scripture study, words of the prophets and apostles, teaching, praying, feeling the peace of the Spirit, and watching the Church grow in Laredo and in the Texas-McAllen Mission. Our first December in Laredo, the first stake was formed with two English-speaking wards, two Spanish-speaking wards, and a Spanish-speaking branch—which became a ward just recently. The TMM is the only mission in the United States where all the young missionaries are called to Spanish-speaking. We taught in English—in fact, we have learned much more Spanish in the months we have been home. We attended two or three sacrament meetings every week. The Spanish meeting took intense concentration! Testimony meetings were filled with lines of people waiting anxiously to share how the hand of God was working in their lives. It was always a spiritual feast.  Last October prayers were answered when the prophet announced a temple for McAllen, TX. It would take too long to explain all that that means to south Texas saints. The short story is that it opens up temple blessings for undocumented members who couldn’t pass the checkpoints going north to the San Antonio Temple.

 

We literally watched lives change as good people were taught and accepted the miracle of the Atonement of Christ. There were some sad cases, too. Victor wanted to be baptized, and the Sisters worked with him for months as he tried to conquer addictions. He attended church and institute though he spoke little English. In the end, he disappeared because the cartel would not let him out of their grip and threatened death to Victor and his family if he tried to end his drug running. 

 

One sweet little family was baptized a few minutes following the parents’ wedding in front of the font. Their extreme commitment to the Gospel changed everything about their lives. They never missed church; they spoke at baptisms; they served.  They had seen the example of Brother Vaca at work and wanted that life for themselves and their children. The Vacas threw the wedding-baptism dinner to celebrate, They had never thought that this family might be interested in hearing the gospel—they didn’t know the influence they were having by just living the gospel at work, at home, and at church.

 

I could tell you a hundred stories that we got to be part of. One young woman who came to Christ and had an immeasurable influence for good was Ingrid. When we met Ingrid, she had been a member of the Church for about 1 ½ years. She had always avoided the missionaries when they were knocking doors in her neighborhood, but one night in her dorm room on the top floor, the missionaries knocked on their final door of the night. Ingrid opened it and accepted their message. She never looked back. While we were there, Ingrid taught with the missionaries, bore testimony, received her endowments in the temple, served as Institute president, encouraged and supported YSA. She also graduated from TA&M at College Station. While no one else in her family has joined the Church so far, Ingrid has been a force of nature in bringing others to Christ.

 

One night Ingrid came a bit late to institute class after working with the Elders who were teaching Mayra. Ingrid reported that Mayra had cried, telling the missionaries, “Oh, why didn’t you find me sooner!” Mayra was soon baptized. Mayra and her children have changed their lives, actively bringing others to experience the joy she found when she found Christ.

 

Cindy is a dear friend who joined the church after her sister accepted the gospel. Cindy is quite a character, but she is completely devoted to sharing her new testimony. She is serving as a ward missionary, and always introducing others to the missionaries.

 

Most who were baptized, and continue to come into the Church, in Laredo come from little resources, loss, family issues, escape from difficult circumstances on the other side of the border. They come legally and otherwise to a country where their dreams can come true. The Lord blesses them with the gospel, the only source of peace. We watched how the Lord brought people to Laredo who could and would make a difference. One young bishop who is a dentist came with his family to Laredo after serving his mission there a few years ago. Another bishopric consisted of an optometrist and two federal immigration attorneys. One bishop was an FBI agent and other leaders were on border control. Leaders come from both sides of the border with talents and skills to help those who need it. The stake president grew up in the Mormon colonies where he learned both languages equally and now holds a position in a large trucking company. People are drawn to Laredo to be part of the great final gathering. As Jim says, “It is to fulfill the blessings promised to the remnant descendants of Lehi in these latter days.”

 

Often we would look at our institute class and see half returned missionaries and half investigators and new members. Our seminary classes were filled with students from faithful generations of Saints and brand-new converts. Like us, they would rise at 4:30 in the morning and travel to the church buildings for classes before school. We had some who could barely speak English, and others who were gifted students attending special high schools or early college. We watched them graduate with honors, go on missions, come to BYUI or other colleges, and enter the military. We saw institute students go on and return from missions, serve in the wards and stake, marry in the temple, and start their own faithful families. And that’s what it’s all about. Jim will tell you a few more of our favorite stories.

 

Our mission was a great blessing. We have never studied so much scripture! We taught the Doctrine & Covenants, Saints, the four gospels of the New Testament, and the Book of Mormon. We have never prayed so many times a day. Through technology we met with Cameron twice a day for scripture study in the Book of Mormon and family prayer. We love our 23 months of service that brought us nearer to Christ! It prepared us for 2020—so we would turn to prayer instead of crying or screaming! We got in the habit of studying together at home. We see the Lord’s hand in our lives in these times of crisis and chaos. We see the Lord’s hand in choosing when we would serve, where we would serve, and how we would serve. I am grateful for the Father’s divine plan for us and for sending Christ to lead us home. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.








Tuesday, November 10, 2020

Matters of CameronFunny

 Matters of Cameronfunny

 

We are having such a great time studying the Book of Mormon with Cameron this year! He is so connected to the scriptures. This is the third time through the Book in this crazy 2020. We have really needed the peace and guidance that has come through our family study and Come-Follow-Me work. We love the Book of Mormon videos, as they bring to life the stories and instruction! Sunday morning we were having family prayer, Cameron’s turn. He began to pray for his heart to be happy. Some tears ran down his cheeks, and he pled for the Spirit. We tried to comfort him, but he just was sad because of the state of the world, the election, the bad people, the sick and lonely people, COVID19, etc. We asked what was the matter, and he answered, “I just love people so much!”

 

Then we opened the scriptures to read Mosiah 3. As Cameron read, we all began to realize that King Benjamin’s words were exactly the message we needed for peace! Cam said, “Hey, that’s like my prayer!” The words King Benjamin was teaching were given to him by an angel of the Lord, and they can heal our hearts: “3. …Awake and hear the words which I shall tell thee; for behold, I am come to declare unto you the glad tidings of great joy. 4. For the Lord hath heard thy prayers, . . . And hath sent me to declare unto thee that thou mayest rejoice. . . that [you] may be filled with joy.” We are so grateful that we opened the scriptures and read the message God meant for us at that moment!


Monday, October 26, 2020

Travels Matter

 


Matters of Travel 

When I was in elementary school, a teacher asked us to choose a country we would like to visit someday. I chose Switzerland because everyone else chose France or Germany. I never dreamed that someday I would travel the world, but I knew that Heidi lived in Switzerland, and it sounded nice. When I was in high school, a few of my close friends went on a trip to Europe. I didn’t even ask my parents if I could go—we had never even been to Disneyland because it was too expensive.

 

Many years ago we set a goal to travel to every state and its capital. It took us many years, but three years ago we met our goal with an autumn trip to Alaska. That was number fifty.  Neither Jim nor I had thought of ourselves as travelers, yet there we were with an impressive list of “places,” a huge Scholastic map in our garage with pictures of capitols and temples, and the traveling bug.

 

We have been all over the world, experiencing the cultures, foods, and idiosyncrasies of many countries—Russia, China, Germany, Turkey, France, Spain, Italy, Denmark, Holland, Belgium, England, Wales, Scotland, Ireland, Canada, Mexico, Poland, Austria, Hungary, Czech Republic, Slovakia, AND Switzerland!—with many other places on our agenda. There is nothing like traveling to make you grateful for The United States of America!

 

Other countries enrich our experience, and I am thankful for that. However, there is a reason people all over the world want to come here. It is a land of promise. That promise is freedom, prosperity, and goodness.



Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Books Matter

 Books Matter: September 2020

 

The pandemic has given me excuses to stay at home. I have a daily checklist: family prayer and scripture study (X2), journal, clean, project (like this blog or sewing), service, piano, ukulele, walk, Spanish study, and READ. Reading is part of my life-long-learning goal. I learn a lot by reading—children’s books, non-fiction, classics, thrillers, historical fiction, modern fiction, and even some fantasy adventure. These are the ones I loved from the last month:

 

THE REMARKABLE JOURNEY OF COYOTE SUNRISE by Dan Gemeinhart

COME UNTO ME by Gerald Lund ( second in the series—also enjoyed FISHERS of MEN)

LIVE FREE OR DIE by Sean Hannity (with Jim)

THE LION, THE WITCH, & THE WARDROBE (with Cam) by C.S. Lewis

THE GIRL WITH THE LOUDING VOICE 

THE OTHER FAMILY by Loretta Nyhan

THE FALSE PRINCE by Jennifer Nielson

THE RUNAWAY KING by Jennifer Nielson

THE BOOK OF LOST FRIENDS by Lisa Wingate

THE CANYON’S EDGE by Dusti Bowling

WHEN STARS ARE SCATTERED

BAN THIS BOOK by Alan Gratz

INSIGNIFICANT EVENTS IN THE LIFE OF A CACTUS by Dusti Bowling

FIGHTING WORDS by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley

THE BOOK OF MORMON

CONFERENCE TALKS APRIL 2020

 

Still reading:

ASHES by Laurie Halse Anderson—third in the series of a young Black girl during and following the Revolutionary War

 

I learn such from different perspectives of history and place. Reading is one of the very best things about retirement!

 

 






Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Votes Matter

 The RNC convention started last night. I didn’t want to watch. I know exactly how I will vote. I caught glimpses of the DNC speeches last week, and that didn’t inspire me! However, I did watch a big piece last night, and it was exciting TV. In fact, it prompted me to make a list of reasons I am voting straight republican—as soon as the ballot comes in the mail. Here are my amazing top ten:

 

#10 I read and study the Book of Mormon every day, twice a day. I liken the scriptures to today. Wow! No wonder God preserved these records for a wise purpose in Him.  The political and social answers are right there for us to discover.

 

#9 America is the promised land. Whatever (and whoever) it takes to preserve it is the choice I want to make. I believe in America’s founding principles.

 

#8 Prophets have warned us against the slide to socialism and communism. I want our freedoms to be preserved.

 

#7 I believe in law and order. It is the only way to protect the rights to free speech (even when my beliefs don’t align with the mainstream media or the politically correct), freedom of religion, and the traditional family. I believe in protecting the rights to life, liberty, and property. This reason may be closely related to the Title of Liberty!

 

#6 I’m not voting for or against a personality or a political style. I want to live in an America that keeps going back to the traditional wisdom of our founding documents. I want us all to keep improving because of our basic underlying belief that all people are created equal in God’s love and that under the law people must be considered equal. The promise is not for equality in circumstance, talent, or resources—only the opportunity to find what’s best for them.

 

#5 I am inspired by conservative principles. I do not believe that the Constitution is a living, breathing, changing plan. I believe it and the Declaration of Independence were divinely inspired.

 

#4 I believe in the right to life. I could never vote for anyone or any group who is willing in their platform to condone killing babies even up to and following birth.

 

#3 Local and state politicians who want the power but will not stand up against violence and looting against people’s businesses, homes, and lives to not deserve my vote. Where will they be when the mob comes to my home? Giving in to the evils of the mob is like voting for the Gadianton robbers and murderers. Never defund our brave police.

 

#2 I have lived a long time. I love the principles of freedom that my parents and grandparents taught me by word and deed. I have spent many years as an educator and administrator. I can see the effects of false political ideas. 

 

#1 I depend on personal revelation and discernment. Over the last 3 ½ years I have learned to find the correct principles rather than to complain about someone’s tweets or style. I never heard of a politician who didn’t think their own way was the best way. A different viewpoint does not make something a lie. I think that the President is the most transparent person ever to lead this country. He is a doer for the people!  

 

I believe this November is a turning point for America. Freedom. Use it or lose it—America!



Tuesday, August 11, 2020

Matters of Faith in Affliction

 Matters of Faith 8.10.20

 

Twice a day Cameron, Jim, and I gather for family prayer and scriptures. We cherish the time together, and we are sure of one thing: It is not by chance that during this stressful time we are challenged to study the Book of Mormon. Every day we pray for guidance as we read and discuss the scriptures and liken them unto ourselves. We pray that we will find peace and understanding. Have you ever wondered, “Why all these war chapters?” I do not wonder any more! In every chapter of Alma we stop in amazement at the parallels to the world around us. We are on our second time through the Book of Mormon this year. We love the many videos and study guides. This time of isolation and upside-down chaos is calmed in our hearts and home as we are constantly reassured that God has saved these scriptures for “a wise purpose” in Him. We feel prepared for this crisis by all the studying we did as we learned at home through “Come, Follow Me” last year. We did not know what this year would be like, but Heavenly Father did!

 

We LOVE the people of Laredo! This picture is Eileen who was able to be baptized last week.  Faithfully she kept learning and growing and meeting with the missionaries despite the pandemic. Missionaries all over the world are finding ways to “bring the world His truth!”

 



Our amazing Emma (Brady’s) turned nine on Sunday.

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Matters of Opinion

I just finished journaling Elder Holland’s conference talk on hope. His thesis statement is “Because the Restoration reaffirmed the foundational truth that God does work in this world, we can hope, we should hope, even when facing the most insurmountable odds.” I needed to read that exact talk today! 

 

Last night we were talking with our daughter about the difficulties around us and the soul-shaking divisions in our country as we try to sort right from wrong and stand for what is right. Jim reminded us what he used to teach his debate teams: “You cannot have an opinion until you have studied and understood BOTH sides of any issue. Until you have done that, you can only have a prejudice.” We are lazy sometimes and let others tell us what we should believe. If we give in to that, we end up wallowing in prejudice. We cannot trust our understanding to the media or those who refuse to face truth. Like the scriptures teach us, we must soften our hearts and hearken to His word. 

 

This country must be protected and revered so it can stand as an ensign to the world in preparation for the Second Coming of the Lord. No other country was good enough, strong enough, or divinely founded enough to bless the world. It is certainly not perfect, and the people’s hearts are not perfect, but we cannot chance letting it fall into disrepair and lawlessness! As I read the Book of Mormon and other scripture, I can see why the rule of law and the Constitution are so essential to preserve the freedoms that are the foundation of God’s plan.

 

It’s not easy! It’s not quick! It cannot be forced upon us by violence and destruction. It takes a changing of hearts. It takes love and compassion for all human beings and faith and trust in God’s love. It takes personal and societal responsibility. There is no escaping the fact that we are accountable for the lives we choose to live. No blame for history. No blame for the system. God has given us everything we need to rise above our circumstances and  lift each other toward Him. We have traveled all over the world. America is the Promised Land!



Sunday, July 19, 2020

American Matters

I grew up in the 1960s in Idaho Falls, Idaho. Though it was a time that changed the world, my thoughts and actions revolved around my school, my family, and my church. I didn’t think much about politics or race or illegal substances. The riots in L.A., the civil-rights marches in Alabama, the struggles in Washington’s legislative halls all seemed like something that happened on television. They were about as real to me as “I Love Lucy,” “Lassie,”or “Bonanza.”

 

I was an excellent student, raised in a loving lower-middle-class home. My father was a scientist (analytical spectroscopist) and my mother had been a teacher from a family of educators. I was taught that all people are created equal in God’s eyes and in the eyes of the law. I was taught that the Constitution of the United States was inspired by God and written by His chosen servants, the founders who were the very best men God had to work with. I was taught that Columbus was guided by the hand of our loving Heavenly Father and brought by Him to this promised land as part of an eternal plan. You may say that this is “white privilege.”You may want to wipe away my history, my beliefs, my thoughts, and my words, but I was privileged by my circumstances, not by my skin color.

 

When I was in high school, I was chosen to represent our school at Girls’ State, a week-long seminar on how government works.It was one of those experiences that shaped my thoughts into more of a world view. I began to love and cherish my heritage, grateful to my Creator for the privilege of living in a country that blessed the whole world.I was more thankful than ever for the foundation of freedoms and those who had fought for the rights and liberties of the American Dream and the human rights of all human beings. I also knew that America had to “grow up,”just like I did to know better and do better.

 

I was taught to be a life-long learner. I had a diverse college experience at Ricks College, Portland State University, Grays Harbor College, and finally graduating from Brigham Young University.I do not want my 70-year-old self to be judged by the things I said or did along the way because I am still learning and thinking a better way.I lived in a different world—let’s call it CONTEXT— and I did the best I could with what I knew. Don’t call me a racist! I do not think I should be judged by the color of my skin, and I don’t think anyone else should, either.I try to live by God’s laws to love everyone and treat them all the same.

 

As a teacher I never experienced seeing children act in racist ways. That doesn’t mean that they never did.It just means that I never really saw it. Children seldom referred to skin color—only when pushed for a description like, “You know—that brown boy.”Once a blond parent wrote me a letter accusing me of being a racist because her daughter was not doing well in spelling. I was flabbergasted. I never thought of the child as being of a different race than I was. In fact, I had never thought of race at all! The child’s father, I learned, was from Pakistan. Another time I welcomed a new child into my sixth-grade class in the middle of our preparations for a patriotic program. He was from Southeast Asia. He didn’t want to participate in our American celebration. This was my first experience with a family who had come for the extraordinary opportunities of America, but did NOT love America at all. I still can see the father at the front desk complaining that his child did not need to be told that our country was exceptional.I could not understand why they left Cambodia to come to a place they hated. I am still learning, and as I learn to do better and understand better, I do better. 

 

Isn’t America the same way? As we learn and change, we do better! Don’t judge us out of context.Don’t erase our history! It is America’s childhood—full of mistakes and sins. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I could think of all the horrible injustices that drove the pioneers from state to state and into the wilderness. I could dwell on the extermination order, the mobs who killed children and finally our prophet, the temple burned to the ground, the many difficulties that faced a people driven from their homes and property, OR I can remember how far we have come. I can look at context and what we learned as a people and a country. I do not hold the people of Missouri, Ohio, or Illinois guilty for the sins of their fathers. I am grateful for the history, for the mistakes, for the repentance, for the hand of God. 



Brady’s Family, our doormat, My Dad

Sunday, June 28, 2020

Isolation Matters

Yesterday as I was couch-potato-ing, Cameron put his hand on my head and asked, “What happened to you?” I gave him a questioning glance, and he answered it with, “Your hair is MESSY!” Then I realized that I had not brushed my hair and had pulled it into a stubby ponytail. No make-up. No personal care whatsoever. That’s what isolation has done for me—a complete lapse in caring what I look like day by day. So, today I am dressed up with earrings and make-up. AND I feel perkier and more on-top-of-things. It was a good reminder that isolation and worry can be an excuse or an incentive. 

The COVID19 spike in Utah has sent a new kind of panic in our household. Haylee’s work closed down temporarily (Starbucks), and it sent us all into a bit of a funk. Being isolated leads to having nothing to look forward to. When they canceled our ward meeting this week because of the rise in cases here in West Valley, we realized once again that we need to renew our self-care and care of others for the unforeseeable future. I think we can do it with a little more faith, a little more cheer, and a little more awareness.
06.28.20

Thursday, June 11, 2020

Today in America


Today in America

I have been meaning to write a post-TMM blog for weeks now, but I finally committed and put it on my to-do list for today. We have been trying to keep calm, have peace in our hearts, and live with hope in Christ for a resolution to some of today’s problems. A few weeks ago, when Jill was home-schooling Haylee on communism and socialism, we pulled out the old Disney movie NIGHT CROSSING. It is the story of two East-German families caught behind the oppression of the Iron Curtain in Berlin. The story is moving and inspiring as the families risk everything for the simple freedoms that we take for granted. . . until these last weeks. They were living in fear—fear of saying their true feelings, ideas, or opinions; fear of being pulled from their homes or put in prison; fear for the future of their children in a socialist regime; fear of losing their jobs and property. I’ve thought a lot about how I would have responded under such circumstances, and here we are today. Someone on Twitter said that we need to stop thinking about voting for or against a personality and start thinking about saving our country, America. This is an excellent video about how to look at what is happening today, and I hope you will listen:  https://youtu.be/zxLi-6RtmUQ  One of my favorite inspirational sayings goes something like this, “Not knowing is bad. Not wanting to know is worse.”

The Sunday before we left Laredo, we watched the BYU TV show FAMILY RULES. The subject was about positivity. I loved the segment featuring Hillary Weeks so much that I took this screen shot. It suggests that we make a family poster of all the positive things we do this summer. The segment was filmed before we were overcome by the pandemic or the riots or the isolation of a lockdown.  What a great way to make our homes and families remember all the great things in our lives!

Sunday, April 5, 2020

Matters of Endings TMM

Matters of Endings TMM 4.5.20

Our 23 months as missionaries would have come to an end this week. We asked to extend until June 1 to see our beloved students through seminary graduation. Then the world turned upside down when we and other seniors were asked to return home immediately in the face of an other-worldly pandemic. President Peterson came to the house on March 27 and released us as missionaries. I’ve been putting off writing an ending to our story, but the time has come to face the fact that we are no longer full-time missionaries with Christ’s name worn on our hearts. I’m really not complaining. We were blessed to serve almost our full mission time, and we are grateful for every minute we spent teaching, studying, preparing, and standing with the missionaries and saints in Laredo, Texas. We will always love the people there and feel honored that God sent us to that little corner of Texas to learn, love, and live for almost two years. Many stories to come…

We are blessed with the spirit in our home today. Conference was a great experience. As it ended, Cameron insisted we have a little testimony meeting with the three of us. Jim and I bore testimony of prophets, apostles, the Restoration, and many of the things that touched our hearts. Then, Cameron. As he bore his testimony, tears literally ran down his cheeks. He talked about the parts of conference that really touched him and how grateful he is to have us home. I honestly had not realized how much he missed us. He has grown spiritually so much while we were gone. I didn’t see it until we actually sat with him twice a day over the last two weeks for prayer and scriptures. He had so many insightful questions as we read from Alma. He wanted to talk about the stories and the principles like he never had before. It is a great blessing.

We have been asked by President Peterson to write or record our mission report so that it can be sent out to our friends and neighbors, so we will soon get that ready. We have many more stories to share about the faithful saints and converts in Laredo. We love you all. Thank you for your love, support, and kindness to us.



Saturday, March 14, 2020

TMM The Spirit Matters

TMM Where the Spirit Dwells Matters           

One night last month, right after dark, we had a knock on our door. We looked at each other. No one ever knocks at our door! I opened the door and found two young women who were out selling energy contracts. They had been working all day. One said, “Your apartment smells SO good! We never come to a place that smells good.” We invited them in because Jim had just made a (keto) “carrot” cake, and it did smell heavenly. The cake was still hot, so no yummy cream-cheese frosting yet, but we wrapped up some giant, warm, spicy pieces for the visitors. We told them that we were missionaries here, teaching teens and young adults, and they recognized the badges they were used to seeing on young elders or sisters. We talked to the ladies for a few moments, wished them luck, and said our kindest good-byes. I had not been able to find so much as a pass-along card to give them! Fast forward two or three weeks. The doorbell rings, and the two young ladies are once again at our door—just to say, “Hi.” Unbelievably, Jim had made another cake that day! We talked to the women about education, families, etc., but I was still unprepared with no pass-along cards. It turns out that they just liked us and this little place we call home. We begged them to talk to the missionaries next time they see some out and about.

We were telling some Sisters(who had stopped by our apartment) about these two experiences, and they said they completely understood because being with us was like walking into a place filled with the Spirit. I had not even thought about that. The Sisters said when they are out teaching, they have to work so hard to bring the spirit into the homes they visit. When they walked into our home, they said, they could relax because that spirit was already here. You mean those energy ladies didn’t come back seeking more cake?!?! Even though we didn’t have pass-alongs or scriptures to give them, we did have comfort and joy to impart. Maybe that will be enough that when the Elders or Sisters find them, they will remember, and they will listen to the gospel message.

We are feeling a little displaced since our teaching has been suspended for now. We are sure every day will be Saturday! Or Sunday—since we plan to watch a lot of videos, study, journal, and learn. This next week is spring break in Laredo. We had to cancel a visit to Austin to see my 91-year-old Aunt Raeola. (We don’t want to put her in jeopardy, especially since she has been in the hospital.) It is very weird to me that we are also seniors—and Jim with some chronic conditions, so we are cautious. Young Women’s camp had 78 girls signed up to attend. A few broken hearts! Missionaries had 18 baptisms planned for today. The temple is closed except for live endowments and sealings that were scheduled. I guess we were warned that the April 2020 general conference would be like no other. It will be unforgettable. Maybe we will ALL pay rapt attention. The Lord has MY attention! We love you. Chins up. It will all be okay. Every one of you is in our prayers.

Monday, March 9, 2020

Instruction Matters 6.23.11

It was one of those stormy days early this spring when the Midwest was hunkering down during devastating tornadoes, and Salt Lake was watching storm warnings. Dark clouds and threatening winds thundered in. Leslie and her family had returned from initiating their new camp trailer and parked it along the street when a ruckus came charging down the road. A horse was dragging a trampoline! Someone thought it would be smart to hitch up their horse to their children’s trampoline. The horse thought differently. Leslie watched as neighbors somehow calmed the horse when it veered into their yard and got the mangled trampoline unhitched. Tragedy averted! Trailer unharmed! Horse survived! Trampoline unusable!

Sometimes we hitch up our hopes to a program or an idea that looks sturdy and strong. When the storms roll in, everything gets wild, and our hopes for success are drug through the dust and mud. I guess the lesson is: be careful what you are hitching up and what you are hitching up to. We cannot take a great new Common Core, for example, and hitch it to shoddy practice or weak knowledge of the subject. Make sure that we are competent and ready and stable before we add a new core. Let’s not let the Core drag us. We can do hard things! We do whatever it takes because our kids are worth it!

Sunday, February 23, 2020

Matters of the Holy Ghost’s Guidance in the TMM

Last week as I was preparing a seminary lesson on 2 Nephi 4-8, I felt impressed to take the time to explain “the curse” and the sign of dark skin. There was SO much to cover in the lessons, and really only 45 minutes in a class, that I wanted to teach only the most important doctrines and principles, but I felt strongly about this little message that was reiterated on the internet because on a mistake in the printed Come, Follow Me manual. I asked Jim to please help me remember because this point was not emphasized in the lesson, only in the supplemental, background material. As I taught, I felt strongly to stop and teach that the curse was NOT about the color of the skin. I called for the students’ attention to look at me because I had a very important message that I wanted them to understand. I said, “I want you to understand this and know that Heavenly Father loves all of us equally. Skin color has nothing to do with His love for us. The curse was and always is a separation from God.” I looked at this room full of descendants of the Lamanites, promised the blessing of the House of Israel in the latter days, and other children of different races, skin colors, and circumstances. There may have been more reasons than this, but I understood why the spirt guided me when one student stayed after class until all the others were gone to thank me for talking about the curse. She and her mother are recent converts from the missionary open house last summer. She said she and her mother had been very concerned about the passages about the curse and skin color. She could hardly wait to go to her mother and help her understand countenance and explanations of language and culture in the Book of Mormon. It was another tender mercy.

We were asked to report last month’s institute attendance in terms of how many non-members attended and how many were baptized. We had five non-members attending and four of them were baptized! Such a blessing to watch young adults seeking and finding truth!

We love you all. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is truly Christ’s church and His kingdom on earth. This is a wonderful time to be alive—and in the Restored Church of Jesus Christ! We love this mission, and wish you all could have the experiences we have had in teaching the gospel here in Laredo, Texas (just a little corner of Mexico with all the amenities and blessings of living in the United States of America). We are so grateful for the Book of Mormon. It is truly God’s word, His tender mercy for us today.
Bishop Burton, the Elders, the friend who baptized (Chris Ozuna) and two of our newest members!

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

TMM Revelation Matters

TMM Blog 1.28.20 Matters of Personal Revelation

Thursday’s institute class was amazing. You never know who will be in that class, but last week was unusual in that we had (besides or usual RMs and faithful YSAs) two newly-baptized members, two almost-baptized, and one boyfriend who has not yet met with the missionaries. We were studying Lehi’s dream, so we divided the class into groups and had them study parts of I NE 8 and then teach the rest of the class. What happened next was the surprise: the “investigators” (I know that is no longer the proper term) led out in teaching. It was amazing!  The boyfriend was willing and able to teach the rest of the class from his first reading of the Book of Mormon. As everyone left, the girlfriend said, “He already has a favorite scripture!” Oh, this mission is the best!

We spoke in 4th Ward on Sunday. In two years we’ve only had to speak twice (and you KNOW how we love to talk!) It was great for us, anyway. So, we got a few notes, kindly thanking us, but I thought you would love this little message from the relief-society president:
“I have to tell you, during our Come Follow Me lesson tonight, Magnus asked “who was that president grandpa guy, that was in the chapel?” And it took us a minute, but he was talking about Elder Flanagan! And then Magnus says “yeah! He was the one who said “Heavenly Father said, hey! Dummy! And then he talked about Laman and Lemuel”
Tell that “president, grandpa guy” thanks for getting our little 5 year old to listen and remember something in sacrament meeting! We love you guys!” Ha, ha!

We had ten baptisms on Saturday! Because they do not have many music people in our stake (and two broken pianos at Los Presidentes chapel), two of the wards needed me to play, so I was running back and forth. The young women in one ward were singing “The Miracle,” and of course, it could not be programmed into the chapel piano. When my parents gave me piano lessons “so I could serve in the church,” they had no idea… Sometimes we get missionaries who can play a little, and that helps. We missed the baptisms in the other building, including one new YSA who had been so attentive and helpful in institute. He was escaping his family who were entrenched in the cartels, and he was coming unto Christ. There are some really special people here.

We LOVE teaching the Book of Mormon! I start crying when I think of leaving our students here. We love them so much! Ages fourteen to mid-thirties and in our hearts forever. I love learning Spanish, and I am getting better and better at understanding. This two years has been a great blessing.

This is 16-yr-old America who was baptized on Saturday. Her mother gave in and gave permission after canceling the baptism last week. Joy!