Saturday, January 23, 2021

Pandemic Routine Matters

 It is true that my routine is pretty boring these days. To rev up my interest and put a spark in my week, I try to find an adventure walk or a project that is different. I journal every day in the scriptures or in conference talks. I love this task more every day, and it gets the creative juices flowing. I play the piano and the ukulele or guitar—mostly because if it’s not on my daily checklist, it won’t get done! I study Spanish for an hour or two every day. Checklist. There is something therapeutic about checking off what I have accomplished. I walk. I read. (Right now I’ve tackled THE WAY OF KINGS and ANXIOUS PEOPLE.) I try to lift or minister. I always have a sewing project going. As a family we read and study the scriptures along with family prayer twice a day. And then there is my blog!

 

It has been a weird ten months since we returned from our mission at the beginning of the COVID19 pandemic, but it has also presented opportunities for learning and growth. I count my blessings. 


Pictures:


1. One of our study projects is with DON”T MISS THIS.

         

2. Another great study is with Tyler & Taylor at Book of Mormon Central—Come, Follow Me Insights.

 
3. Calendaring




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Wednesday, December 16, 2020

Cameron’ Christmas Miracle Matters

 Matters of Light This Christmas, A Cameron Story

I was feeling very Christmasy. I was completely immersed in “Christmas with the Chosen” and had just watched an episode of Studio 5 called “End 2020 on a Positive Note” with Dr. Liz Patel and Brooke Walker when Jim called with this Christmas-miracle story: He had taken Cameron to buy a suit for Christmas. This is because Cam has lost about 90 pounds, and his suit from many years ago literally hangs on him. They went shopping at Mr. Mac. Cameron was bubbling over with excitement and thrilled to find out that he could get a $300 suit AND a second one for $1 more. Cam loves to shop! As Jim went to the counter to pay for TWO suits, the miracles began. Two free ties! Then, the unexpected. Another customer in the store, a kind and generous soul, had already paid $200 on our bill! The tears began to flow—from both of my guys. A Christmas pay-it-forward. Cameron had been shopping for a week for co-workers and family, but this. . .! What a little miracle! It changed Christmas for us forever.

 

So, Dr. Liz’s list of ways to end 2020 on a positive note should include just one more thing:

#1. Look for the cosmic Christmas miracle in the SW sky, beginning Dec. 21 just after sundown when Jupiter and Saturn align!

#2. Look for the joy that doesn’t meet the circumstance!

#3. Look for the needs and causes close to you!

#4. Look at Christmas through the eyes of a child!

#5. Look for ways to spread warm “hugs” of emotion!

AND bonus #6. Look around for good, generous people sharing what they have with someone who needs to know that they matter.

 

Watch the segment on Studio 5, and then add your mental image of a kind person at Mr. Mac’s, who made a young man with Down Syndrome feel like the most important and loved person today!




Friday, December 11, 2020

 We have two Christmas trees this year. It’s a long story, and it happened through a series of unfortunate events, but it’s the end of the story that I love. 



 

It is not easy at our age to set up and decorate a nine-foot tree and a seven-foot tree. A visit from my brother and his wife prompted us to push ourselves through the mess and the stress to finish it all. The old tree is one we call  our Santa-travel-family tree. We collect ornaments as we travel the world, and they are beautiful remembrances of people and places we love. This is also where we put our ornament gifts, received from students and families through the years. We have collected beautiful, whimsical, and homemade Santas, too. A few years ago we found little frame ornaments and added family pictures. We love this tree—even though we had to string lights this year.

 

The living-room tree is completely covered with all references to the Savior and the humble Nativity. I think that all the disasters that led us to the purchase and work of this tree were all worth it. It sits next to the piano where I play the old carols of the season. The lights and décor inspire me to play. It is another way for us to be reminded every day that our Jesus is the Reason for the Season!

 

My cousin Susan sent this message from Elder Christofferson (“Why We Need Jesus Christ”) in her Christmas card this year: “As Christmas approaches…dial down the ‘noise’, and take some time this Christmas season to reflect on the wonder and the majesty of the Son of God. . . to relax, be at peace, and see this little child in your mind. Do not be concerned. . .with what [may be] coming up in His life or in yours. Instead, take a peaceful moment to contemplate perhaps the most serene moment in the history of the world—when all of heaven rejoiced with the message ‘Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward men’ (Luke 2:14).” 

 

Amen!


Monday, November 30, 2020

Coming to Christ Talk 11/22/20 Hunter 2nd Ward

 

Have you ever been to a salt mine? Sounds interesting, right? A few years ago while my son’s family was living in Austria, we took a trip to Salzburg (which means salt city). As we traveled along, we got a text from our daughter-in-law in the car ahead of us with a link to buy tickets for the salt-mine tour in Halstadt. That sounded interesting, so we bought our tickets online, sight unseen. (Sort of like going on a mission—sounds interesting, ya?) We arrived in Halstadt, a breathtakingly beautiful village in the Alps. Then, reality hit. Straight up the mountain to the mine ran  a half-mile funicular tram. My heart stopped beating in my acrophobic mind. I tried to back out, but there was a lot of social pressure from my family. Up the mountain we went. My grandchildren exclaimed at the top, “Grandma, you did great!” I had not screamed at all. Paralyzed in fear, I prayed my way to the top. In fact I prayed my way across bridges, streams, and forest paths for another half mile to the mine. We all dressed in safety clothing and received instruction about salt slides within the mine (more praying), moving through the darkness (more prayers), and the trip out on a human bench train. Then, back down the mountain, across a clear bridge high above the village at the bottom of the Alps. My inclination was to scream and cry the whole way! But instead, I prayed.

 

That is very similar to 2020. It sounded like a good idea in January, but my inclination has been to cry and scream all the way. Instead, I have prayed. For three months we continued our missionary work in Laredo. We taught early-morning seminary every day, prepared 6-10 hours for the next day, prepared and taught two institute lessons a week, year-round, helped the young missionaries with transportation, teaching, baptisms, and music. Every week there were multiple baptisms; most were young adults and teens—so we were often working with new converts and those being taught in our classes. 

 

How did our mission help us come to Christ? Every day in every way we were immersed in scripture study, words of the prophets and apostles, teaching, praying, feeling the peace of the Spirit, and watching the Church grow in Laredo and in the Texas-McAllen Mission. Our first December in Laredo, the first stake was formed with two English-speaking wards, two Spanish-speaking wards, and a Spanish-speaking branch—which became a ward just recently. The TMM is the only mission in the United States where all the young missionaries are called to Spanish-speaking. We taught in English—in fact, we have learned much more Spanish in the months we have been home. We attended two or three sacrament meetings every week. The Spanish meeting took intense concentration! Testimony meetings were filled with lines of people waiting anxiously to share how the hand of God was working in their lives. It was always a spiritual feast.  Last October prayers were answered when the prophet announced a temple for McAllen, TX. It would take too long to explain all that that means to south Texas saints. The short story is that it opens up temple blessings for undocumented members who couldn’t pass the checkpoints going north to the San Antonio Temple.

 

We literally watched lives change as good people were taught and accepted the miracle of the Atonement of Christ. There were some sad cases, too. Victor wanted to be baptized, and the Sisters worked with him for months as he tried to conquer addictions. He attended church and institute though he spoke little English. In the end, he disappeared because the cartel would not let him out of their grip and threatened death to Victor and his family if he tried to end his drug running. 

 

One sweet little family was baptized a few minutes following the parents’ wedding in front of the font. Their extreme commitment to the Gospel changed everything about their lives. They never missed church; they spoke at baptisms; they served.  They had seen the example of Brother Vaca at work and wanted that life for themselves and their children. The Vacas threw the wedding-baptism dinner to celebrate, They had never thought that this family might be interested in hearing the gospel—they didn’t know the influence they were having by just living the gospel at work, at home, and at church.

 

I could tell you a hundred stories that we got to be part of. One young woman who came to Christ and had an immeasurable influence for good was Ingrid. When we met Ingrid, she had been a member of the Church for about 1 ½ years. She had always avoided the missionaries when they were knocking doors in her neighborhood, but one night in her dorm room on the top floor, the missionaries knocked on their final door of the night. Ingrid opened it and accepted their message. She never looked back. While we were there, Ingrid taught with the missionaries, bore testimony, received her endowments in the temple, served as Institute president, encouraged and supported YSA. She also graduated from TA&M at College Station. While no one else in her family has joined the Church so far, Ingrid has been a force of nature in bringing others to Christ.

 

One night Ingrid came a bit late to institute class after working with the Elders who were teaching Mayra. Ingrid reported that Mayra had cried, telling the missionaries, “Oh, why didn’t you find me sooner!” Mayra was soon baptized. Mayra and her children have changed their lives, actively bringing others to experience the joy she found when she found Christ.

 

Cindy is a dear friend who joined the church after her sister accepted the gospel. Cindy is quite a character, but she is completely devoted to sharing her new testimony. She is serving as a ward missionary, and always introducing others to the missionaries.

 

Most who were baptized, and continue to come into the Church, in Laredo come from little resources, loss, family issues, escape from difficult circumstances on the other side of the border. They come legally and otherwise to a country where their dreams can come true. The Lord blesses them with the gospel, the only source of peace. We watched how the Lord brought people to Laredo who could and would make a difference. One young bishop who is a dentist came with his family to Laredo after serving his mission there a few years ago. Another bishopric consisted of an optometrist and two federal immigration attorneys. One bishop was an FBI agent and other leaders were on border control. Leaders come from both sides of the border with talents and skills to help those who need it. The stake president grew up in the Mormon colonies where he learned both languages equally and now holds a position in a large trucking company. People are drawn to Laredo to be part of the great final gathering. As Jim says, “It is to fulfill the blessings promised to the remnant descendants of Lehi in these latter days.”

 

Often we would look at our institute class and see half returned missionaries and half investigators and new members. Our seminary classes were filled with students from faithful generations of Saints and brand-new converts. Like us, they would rise at 4:30 in the morning and travel to the church buildings for classes before school. We had some who could barely speak English, and others who were gifted students attending special high schools or early college. We watched them graduate with honors, go on missions, come to BYUI or other colleges, and enter the military. We saw institute students go on and return from missions, serve in the wards and stake, marry in the temple, and start their own faithful families. And that’s what it’s all about. Jim will tell you a few more of our favorite stories.

 

Our mission was a great blessing. We have never studied so much scripture! We taught the Doctrine & Covenants, Saints, the four gospels of the New Testament, and the Book of Mormon. We have never prayed so many times a day. Through technology we met with Cameron twice a day for scripture study in the Book of Mormon and family prayer. We love our 23 months of service that brought us nearer to Christ! It prepared us for 2020—so we would turn to prayer instead of crying or screaming! We got in the habit of studying together at home. We see the Lord’s hand in our lives in these times of crisis and chaos. We see the Lord’s hand in choosing when we would serve, where we would serve, and how we would serve. I am grateful for the Father’s divine plan for us and for sending Christ to lead us home. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.








Tuesday, November 10, 2020

Matters of CameronFunny

 Matters of Cameronfunny

 

We are having such a great time studying the Book of Mormon with Cameron this year! He is so connected to the scriptures. This is the third time through the Book in this crazy 2020. We have really needed the peace and guidance that has come through our family study and Come-Follow-Me work. We love the Book of Mormon videos, as they bring to life the stories and instruction! Sunday morning we were having family prayer, Cameron’s turn. He began to pray for his heart to be happy. Some tears ran down his cheeks, and he pled for the Spirit. We tried to comfort him, but he just was sad because of the state of the world, the election, the bad people, the sick and lonely people, COVID19, etc. We asked what was the matter, and he answered, “I just love people so much!”

 

Then we opened the scriptures to read Mosiah 3. As Cameron read, we all began to realize that King Benjamin’s words were exactly the message we needed for peace! Cam said, “Hey, that’s like my prayer!” The words King Benjamin was teaching were given to him by an angel of the Lord, and they can heal our hearts: “3. …Awake and hear the words which I shall tell thee; for behold, I am come to declare unto you the glad tidings of great joy. 4. For the Lord hath heard thy prayers, . . . And hath sent me to declare unto thee that thou mayest rejoice. . . that [you] may be filled with joy.” We are so grateful that we opened the scriptures and read the message God meant for us at that moment!


Monday, October 26, 2020

Travels Matter

 


Matters of Travel 

When I was in elementary school, a teacher asked us to choose a country we would like to visit someday. I chose Switzerland because everyone else chose France or Germany. I never dreamed that someday I would travel the world, but I knew that Heidi lived in Switzerland, and it sounded nice. When I was in high school, a few of my close friends went on a trip to Europe. I didn’t even ask my parents if I could go—we had never even been to Disneyland because it was too expensive.

 

Many years ago we set a goal to travel to every state and its capital. It took us many years, but three years ago we met our goal with an autumn trip to Alaska. That was number fifty.  Neither Jim nor I had thought of ourselves as travelers, yet there we were with an impressive list of “places,” a huge Scholastic map in our garage with pictures of capitols and temples, and the traveling bug.

 

We have been all over the world, experiencing the cultures, foods, and idiosyncrasies of many countries—Russia, China, Germany, Turkey, France, Spain, Italy, Denmark, Holland, Belgium, England, Wales, Scotland, Ireland, Canada, Mexico, Poland, Austria, Hungary, Czech Republic, Slovakia, AND Switzerland!—with many other places on our agenda. There is nothing like traveling to make you grateful for The United States of America!

 

Other countries enrich our experience, and I am thankful for that. However, there is a reason people all over the world want to come here. It is a land of promise. That promise is freedom, prosperity, and goodness.



Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Books Matter

 Books Matter: September 2020

 

The pandemic has given me excuses to stay at home. I have a daily checklist: family prayer and scripture study (X2), journal, clean, project (like this blog or sewing), service, piano, ukulele, walk, Spanish study, and READ. Reading is part of my life-long-learning goal. I learn a lot by reading—children’s books, non-fiction, classics, thrillers, historical fiction, modern fiction, and even some fantasy adventure. These are the ones I loved from the last month:

 

THE REMARKABLE JOURNEY OF COYOTE SUNRISE by Dan Gemeinhart

COME UNTO ME by Gerald Lund ( second in the series—also enjoyed FISHERS of MEN)

LIVE FREE OR DIE by Sean Hannity (with Jim)

THE LION, THE WITCH, & THE WARDROBE (with Cam) by C.S. Lewis

THE GIRL WITH THE LOUDING VOICE 

THE OTHER FAMILY by Loretta Nyhan

THE FALSE PRINCE by Jennifer Nielson

THE RUNAWAY KING by Jennifer Nielson

THE BOOK OF LOST FRIENDS by Lisa Wingate

THE CANYON’S EDGE by Dusti Bowling

WHEN STARS ARE SCATTERED

BAN THIS BOOK by Alan Gratz

INSIGNIFICANT EVENTS IN THE LIFE OF A CACTUS by Dusti Bowling

FIGHTING WORDS by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley

THE BOOK OF MORMON

CONFERENCE TALKS APRIL 2020

 

Still reading:

ASHES by Laurie Halse Anderson—third in the series of a young Black girl during and following the Revolutionary War

 

I learn such from different perspectives of history and place. Reading is one of the very best things about retirement!